A 1950s themed tea for Summer with the Seasonal Te A 1950s themed tea for Summer with the Seasonal Tea Society! My closet was ready for this one. 😍 And so was my freezer. I finally put some of those frozen bananas to use in my banana bread! 😆 Who else has a freezer full of brown bananas? Can’t just be me.

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Adventuring around town with this crew in the 90 d Adventuring around town with this crew in the 90 degree heat. 💙🩵💙🩵

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Honestly I can’t believe a band tee didn’t mak Honestly I can’t believe a band tee didn’t make it into this mix. 🎶🤘🏻 But there’s a @drpepper t-shirt so that’s even better! I’ve been having so much fun lately remixing things I’ve had for years along with a few new pieces! 

Thrifting and finding a super good clearance deal = my favorite! I’m not really sure what my style is these days.. but I’m having fun playing around with it and feeling a little more like ME in what I’m wearing. Warped Tour heart, coffee shop soul vibes? ✨😆 

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I think sometime between becoming a mom, working, I think sometime between becoming a mom, working, keeping up with a house, and trying to take care of everyone else… I forgot to ask myself what I actually like.

So lately I’ve been paying attention.

The clothes I want to wear.

The hobbies I want to try.

The spaces I want to create.

The things that make me feel like myself.

Maybe this is exactly what your late 30s are for. Not becoming someone new.. but remembering who you are.✨

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I think sometime between becoming a mom, working, I think sometime between becoming a mom, working, keeping up with a house, and trying to take care of everyone else… I forgot to ask myself what I actually like.

So lately I’ve been paying attention.

The clothes I want to wear.

The hobbies I want to try.

The spaces I want to create.

The things that make me feel like myself.

Maybe this is exactly what your late 30s are for. Not becoming someone new.. but remembering who you are.✨

#slowliving #cozyhome #intentionalliving #lifelately #womenintheir30s
My littlest boys are 4️⃣!! Their only birthday My littlest boys are 4️⃣!! Their only birthday demand was that we get them a Sonic the hedgehog cake! 😆 

I still just sit and stare at them in disbelief sometimes.. my twin babies.. my last babies.. and somehow they’ve been here for 4 whole years. If you’re a twin mom, you know that the time passes different. The early stages are a blur in a way I don’t even know how to explain. It makes it all a bit more bittersweet.

I love you Bennett & Everett! 💙💙

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We swam, we fished, we played lots of card games, We swam, we fished, we played lots of card games, and we ate an obscene amount of Publix cuban sandwiches and fried chicken. 🏝️🐠🎣🐚🌊 Not pictured: the giant angry birds that Nate went to war with everytime he stepped out front.
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Universal was a blast. I hadn’t been since I was Universal was a blast. I hadn’t been since I was a teenager and I only vaguely remembered a ride or two! There was so much to do for the littlest brothers and aside from being HOT, it was perfect. 

Everett was big mad at us for taking him on the SpiderMan ride and did not trust our judgement the rest of the time. 🤣 He LOVED the 1 Fish 2 Fish ride and wanted to ride that all day. 

Bennett on the other hand was all about the thrills and the Trollercoaster was his favorite. He said it was “Torrifying” but he made us all ride it with him multiple times.

I rode Velocicoaster with Nate, Landon, and Maile. And while I would do it again - for a moment I did think I might die. I only did that once. 🤣 Nate and Landon rode it multiple times. Hagrid’s was more my speed and Cohen agrees with me! 

I am a Disney girl at heart! But Disney doesn’t have a *real life* baby dinosaur that you can pet sooo there’s some competition. 😆

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What Most Homeowners Overlook When Tearing Down and Building New

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For most homeowners, moving isn’t the dream. In fact, the majority of people would rather renovate than pack up their lives and leave a neighborhood they love. Lately, though, more families are choosing a different route altogether: tearing down an existing structure and building something entirely new on the same piece of land.

I get the appeal. You keep the location you love, the schools, the memories, and the routines, while creating a home that actually fits your life now. But while this approach can feel like the best of both worlds, it’s also a process filled with details that are easy to underestimate until you’re already knee-deep in decisions and invoices.

If you’re considering a teardown and rebuild, here are a few things people often overlook that can add time, stress, and unexpected costs to the process.

Zoning Rules and Local Restrictions Matter More Than You Think

Owning the land doesn’t automatically mean you can build whatever you want. Zoning laws, HOA rules, historic districts, and neighborhood overlays can all influence what’s allowed on your property.

These restrictions may include height limits, setback requirements, lot coverage rules, or even exterior design standards. When plans don’t comply, they can be rejected, forcing you back to square one and adding thousands in redesign fees.

In some cases, you may also need environmental reviews or community appraisals before approval is granted. These steps take time and money, so it’s important to research local planning requirements early. Doing this upfront can save you from costly delays later.

Site Prep Is More Than Just Knocking the House Down

Demolition is only the beginning. Once the old structure is gone, the real work starts. Clearing trees, testing soil, grading the land, addressing drainage, disconnecting utilities, and handling any hazardous materials are all part of the process.

When it comes to preparing your land for a new build, this stage is absolutely essential. The ground needs to properly support your future home. Skipping steps or underestimating this phase can cause serious structural issues down the road. It’s not glamorous work, but it’s foundational in every sense of the word.

Utility Upgrades Can Blow the Budget Fast

One of the biggest surprises homeowners face is outdated infrastructure. Older homes often sit on sewer lines, water connections, gas lines, and electrical systems that don’t meet current building codes.

Even if the home you’re tearing down isn’t that old, your new layout may require relocating or upgrading utilities. Upgrading electricity alone can cost thousands of dollars, and when you start stacking multiple upgrades together, the total can climb quickly. This is one of the most commonly underestimated parts of a rebuild budget.

Starting over with a brand-new home can be incredibly rewarding, but it’s not a decision to rush into. The more research you do ahead of time, the more prepared you’ll be for the realities of the process. Understanding zoning rules, site preparation needs, and utility upgrades allows you to budget realistically and move forward with confidence.

Building new on land you already love can absolutely be worth it. You just want to make sure there are no surprises standing between you and the home you’re dreaming of.

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