A 1950s themed tea for Summer with the Seasonal Te A 1950s themed tea for Summer with the Seasonal Tea Society! My closet was ready for this one. 😍 And so was my freezer. I finally put some of those frozen bananas to use in my banana bread! 😆 Who else has a freezer full of brown bananas? Can’t just be me.

#seasonalteasociety #teaparty #50stheme #sharethelex
Adventuring around town with this crew in the 90 d Adventuring around town with this crew in the 90 degree heat. 💙🩵💙🩵

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Honestly I can’t believe a band tee didn’t mak Honestly I can’t believe a band tee didn’t make it into this mix. 🎶🤘🏻 But there’s a @drpepper t-shirt so that’s even better! I’ve been having so much fun lately remixing things I’ve had for years along with a few new pieces! 

Thrifting and finding a super good clearance deal = my favorite! I’m not really sure what my style is these days.. but I’m having fun playing around with it and feeling a little more like ME in what I’m wearing. Warped Tour heart, coffee shop soul vibes? ✨😆 

#StyleOver30 #CozyKentuckyLife #PersonalStyle #vintagestyle #ShareTheLex
I think sometime between becoming a mom, working, I think sometime between becoming a mom, working, keeping up with a house, and trying to take care of everyone else… I forgot to ask myself what I actually like.

So lately I’ve been paying attention.

The clothes I want to wear.

The hobbies I want to try.

The spaces I want to create.

The things that make me feel like myself.

Maybe this is exactly what your late 30s are for. Not becoming someone new.. but remembering who you are.✨

#slowliving #cozyhome #intentionalliving #lifelately #womenintheir30s
I think sometime between becoming a mom, working, I think sometime between becoming a mom, working, keeping up with a house, and trying to take care of everyone else… I forgot to ask myself what I actually like.

So lately I’ve been paying attention.

The clothes I want to wear.

The hobbies I want to try.

The spaces I want to create.

The things that make me feel like myself.

Maybe this is exactly what your late 30s are for. Not becoming someone new.. but remembering who you are.✨

#slowliving #cozyhome #intentionalliving #lifelately #womenintheir30s
My littlest boys are 4️⃣!! Their only birthday My littlest boys are 4️⃣!! Their only birthday demand was that we get them a Sonic the hedgehog cake! 😆 

I still just sit and stare at them in disbelief sometimes.. my twin babies.. my last babies.. and somehow they’ve been here for 4 whole years. If you’re a twin mom, you know that the time passes different. The early stages are a blur in a way I don’t even know how to explain. It makes it all a bit more bittersweet.

I love you Bennett & Everett! 💙💙

#twinmom #boymom #momof4 #twinsandmultiples
We swam, we fished, we played lots of card games, We swam, we fished, we played lots of card games, and we ate an obscene amount of Publix cuban sandwiches and fried chicken. 🏝️🐠🎣🐚🌊 Not pictured: the giant angry birds that Nate went to war with everytime he stepped out front.
Summer day dreams☀️🏝️ #summervibes #cape Summer day dreams☀️🏝️

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Universal was a blast. I hadn’t been since I was Universal was a blast. I hadn’t been since I was a teenager and I only vaguely remembered a ride or two! There was so much to do for the littlest brothers and aside from being HOT, it was perfect. 

Everett was big mad at us for taking him on the SpiderMan ride and did not trust our judgement the rest of the time. 🤣 He LOVED the 1 Fish 2 Fish ride and wanted to ride that all day. 

Bennett on the other hand was all about the thrills and the Trollercoaster was his favorite. He said it was “Torrifying” but he made us all ride it with him multiple times.

I rode Velocicoaster with Nate, Landon, and Maile. And while I would do it again - for a moment I did think I might die. I only did that once. 🤣 Nate and Landon rode it multiple times. Hagrid’s was more my speed and Cohen agrees with me! 

I am a Disney girl at heart! But Disney doesn’t have a *real life* baby dinosaur that you can pet sooo there’s some competition. 😆

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Home, Lifestyle · January 1, 2026

How To Turn Your Boring Landscaping Into Something Special

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How To Turn Your Boring Landscaping Into Something Special

If your landscaping is starting to feel a little blah, you’re not alone. As a mom of four boys, I know how easy it is for the outdoor spaces on your property to fall to the bottom of the priority list. But your yard doesn’t have to be perfect or magazine-worthy to feel inviting. With a few intentional updates, you can take your landscaping from dull to downright enjoyable without overwhelming yourself or your budget.

Here are some realistic, approachable ways to refresh your outdoor space and actually enjoy it again.

Start With a Simple Vision (Before You Touch Anything)

Before you buy plants or haul out tools, take a few “before” photos and get clear on what you want to change. I always recommend starting small. You do not need to redo your entire yard at once.

Maybe that means adding paving to your property in one section of the lawn to create a walking path or seating area, then softening it with shrubs or mulch along the edges. When you give yourself a clear “after” vision, even a small one, the process feels much more doable and less overwhelming.

Planning first also helps you stick to a budget and avoid impulse purchases that don’t quite work together.

Balance Greenery With Hardscaping

It’s easy to assume more plants automatically mean a better-looking yard, but some of the most beautiful outdoor spaces find a balance between greenery and structure.

Hardscaping elements like stone edging, gravel, or pavers can instantly make a space feel intentional and polished. Adding decorative rocks or boulders can also anchor flower beds and keep things from feeling messy or overgrown. And if you want something low maintenance, adding paving to your property is a great option that typically only needs occasional pressure washing.

When paired with soft lighting or natural plants, these features can completely elevate the look of your yard.

Add Height and Dimension

Flat landscapes tend to look unfinished. Adding height makes your yard feel layered, cozy, and visually interesting.

This can be as simple as installing trellises, arbors with climbing plants, or creating raised areas with berms to your garden. Berms are especially helpful if you’re limited on space or want to add interest without major construction. They create gentle elevation changes that make your yard feel more dynamic and intentional.

Vertical elements also draw the eye upward, which makes even smaller yards feel larger.

Use Containers and Raised Beds

Containers are one of my favorite ways to refresh landscaping because they’re flexible and forgiving. Group different-sized pots together, mix textures, and combine flowering plants with greenery for a more curated look.

Raised beds work similarly and are especially helpful if you want defined zones or a small vegetable garden. Adding height through containers and raised beds makes your yard feel layered and purposeful, not flat or boring.

Bring in Trees for Long-Term Impact

Trees can completely transform a landscape over time. Whether you want shade, privacy, or seasonal interest, working with a reputable tree company can help you choose the right trees for your space and climate.

Trees support local wildlife, add structure to your yard, and bring in natural beauty that matures year after year. Flowering trees attract pollinators, while fruiting trees offer beauty and function. It’s one of those upgrades that truly pays off long-term.

Create a Patio for Real Outdoor Living

If you actually want to use your yard, a patio makes all the difference. It creates a solid foundation for outdoor seating, dining, or even a fire pit.

Patios allow you to enjoy your space even when the grass is wet or muddy (which, let’s be honest, happens a lot with kids). Concrete and brick are budget-friendly options, while natural stone or flagstone can add a more elevated look if that’s your goal.

Add One Standout Feature

Every yard benefits from a focal point. This could be a fire pit, water feature, or even a cozy seating area that draws people in.

Practical focal features work especially well for families. A fire pit, for example, extends your outdoor season and creates a natural gathering place. When fire and water elements are combined thoughtfully, they add warmth, movement, and a little bit of magic to your space.

Don’t Forget Color in Your Flower Beds

Color goes a long way in making landscaping feel alive. Mixing annuals and perennials helps ensure something is blooming through most of the year. Layering plants by height and texture creates depth and keeps things visually interesting.

Even a small pop of color near walkways or patios can completely change how your yard feels.

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