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As a mom of four boys – including twin toddlers – I know that the word âhomeâ can mean everything from âmy safe spaceâ to âthe place that looks like a tornado rolled through by 9 a.m.â Itâs where memories are made, meltdowns happen, and life unfolds in all its beautiful chaos. But if your space has been feeling off lately, or just not quite as livable as youâd like, there are a few simple shifts that can make a huge difference. Letâs talk about them.
Clear the Clutter (Yes, Even the Random Sock Mountain)
ListenâI get it. With kids, clutter basically breeds overnight. But keeping your space as clear as possible (especially the main living areas) can really help you breathe easier. Iâm not talking about perfection. Iâm talking about baskets, bins, and realistic routines that make your home feel like a calming space instead of a stress trigger.
Even a 10-minute nightly tidy-up has made a huge difference in how our mornings goâand trust me, with four boys, I count every small win.
Create Zones That Actually Work for Your Family
I love making spaces in our home work for how we liveânot just how Pinterest says they should look. Creating zones has been a game changer. A play zone for the toddlers (that doesnât take over the whole house), a reading nook for our 9-year-old, and even a chill coffee corner for me to sip my morning cup (before the chaos begins) makes our home feel more intentionalâand more liveable.
Zoning doesnât have to be fancy. Just a little thought into how each corner of your home serves your family can transform the flow of your days.
Donât Ignore the Little Fixes (Like Your Electrics!)
Thereâs nothing like trying to plug in the vacuum, only to find the outletâs fried, to make you realize how important those not-so-pretty parts of your home are. We had some electrical issues in our kitchen and finally got them handled by checking with a local electrical wholesale supplier and hiring someone to come fix it properly.
It wasnât glamorous, but wowâit made our space function so much better. If youâve been putting off the âboringâ stuff, consider this your sign: those small fixes can make a huge difference.
Add a Touch of Nature (Without Needing a Green Thumb)
Iâm not a plant expert, but I am a big fan of bringing nature insideâespecially during the fall when Iâm craving all things cozy. A few houseplants (even the low-maintenance kind) or some fresh flowers on the kitchen table can make your space feel instantly more beautiful and livable.
It freshens the air and your moodâplus, itâs an easy way to feel like youâve got your life together (even if the toddler just colored on the walls).
At the end of the day, your home doesnât have to be perfect to be just right for your family. Small changesâdecluttering, defining zones, fixing whatâs broken, and adding a bit of beautyâcan make it feel more liveable in the most real, down-to-earth way.
And letâs be honest, if it works for four wild boys and one tired mama? It can work for anyone.
Want more tips like this?
As a busy work-from-home mama with four boys, Iâm all about finding ways to make life easier and more joyful. Grab my free guide for overwhelmed moms wanting to bring in an income from home and learn how to get things done and be present with your kiddos.
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